1 / What excites you?

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More than anything else, I'm excited by learning and by making new experiences and connections. I love challenging myself to do things I've never done before, or to discover things I didn't previously know. Some of the memories that I treasure the most are traveling to new places, or meeting people from walks of life that are immeasurably different from mine. 

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I am very interested in the intersections of power, authority, and sex. Elitism and status does not hold my attention, but thoughtfulness, curiosity, and enthusiasm does. 

2 / What are you really like?
 

I crave authenticity and practice it in all areas of my life. What you read here is what you will get, and my presence online, even down to my photos, are my own words and work. It is in my own interest to be true to myself, therefore I do not airbrush my skin or my personality.

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I hide my face because I do have a normal job outside of this intimate calling, and because of stigmatization against my part-time profession. I prefer to keep my real face just between you and I. Also, I suspect if I showed it, I would be overwhelmed with requests. ;)​ If you are curious about what my face looks like, I've been told I look a bit like everyone. I've been confused for being native Italian, Portuguese, Spanish, Mexican, and Turkish, amongst others. I just have one of those faces that's hard to place and harder to forget. If it helps, the most common stars I've been told I look like are Brooke Shields, Anne Hathaway, Michaela Conlin, and Julia Roberts. Yes, I know, none of those women look anything like each other. 

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People are complicated and it's hard to nail down what I'm really like in a single paragraph. My favorite connections are people who've read my twitter, my bluesky feed, or my online blog and have experienced a genuine enthusiasm and sense of connection with that. Knowing what I'm really like really boils down to whether or not you like how you feel when you get to know me more, or if we read the same books or watch the same films. A quick way to my heart is through Sofia Coppola or Barbara Kingsolver.

3 / What do you most value in your work?
 

The work I do in this space is essential to me, and hopefully meaningful to you. I like to think I challenge people to be their most authentic selves. Many clients have experienced intimate moments with me that they've never had the courage to reach for or perform with anyone else. Some come to me for emotional healing, and it's my pleasure to create spaces for them to feel safe. In turn, I love when my clients leave me feeling energized, cared for, inspired, and fulfilled. 

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For that reason, I am particularly thoughtful about my labor. I don't always see everyone who inquires with me because I want to make sure it's an enjoyable experience for everyone. I bring all of me to the table, and I want people to feel safe bringing all of themselves. Whether or not it's the two of us learning/experiencing something together for the first and last time or a long-lasting connection, more than anything I value both of us feeling whole and rekindled, and inspired to be a little bit kinder.

4 / What makes your knees weak?
 

On a noble level? I love books, film and art. I'm a creative by nature and nothing energizes me more than a marvelous novel or a trip to the museum. I really value imaginativeness in the world and I do all I can to support and patronize the arts. Let's shoot the breeze about the latest exhibit at the Met or the nominations for best picture. 

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On a more shallow and material level, I'm a sucker for a dive bar. I also love love love a costume party. The happiest I am is when I'm on top of a mountain.

5 / How do I plan a date with you?
 

Send me an email! I am very creative and love to explore new things. I am more than happy to brainstorm with you about a potential date. Perhaps a wander around one of NYC's lesser-known museums? A visit to Broadway or a comedy cellar in the LES? I'm easy-going and easy to please. Let's collaborate and come up with a magical adventure all on our own. 

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Curated date ideas coming soon.... <3

6 / Kink, references, and other common questions
 

Feeling wild: I love exploring new boundaries and horizons as long as everyone is on the same page and fully consenting. Couples, fetish, or kink work intrigues and delights me. Email me for more questions. 

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References: I am happy to provide 1-2 references for someone I have seen within the last six months, if you ask me for permission first. Good references take work though, so I also accept a small thank you in the form of a book or gift card. 

 

Gifts: Speaking of gifts, I know that for many their love language so I've provided a couple of options for you, available on my covetables page here. There are also options for community support and mutual aid because I happen to find activism extremely sexy.  

 

Can we chat before meeting? If you want to speak before meeting, for a small fee I can provide a quick (and screenshot-free) encrypted call via birdcalls.is so that you can verify that I'm real, and I can do the same with  you. This is only available for those who have submitted screening information. 

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Yes means Yes: respect, consent, and discretion are paramount. I expect my clients to be well-versed in what it means to interpret no as no, yes as yes, and everything in between as an opportunity for honest communication. I am open-minded as long as I am respected. I do not suffer male-hosted chat rooms, review boards, or insidious whorephobia. Participation in such activities will result in immediate termination of our relationship and blacklisting. Read more about my consent policy here.